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It truly takes a village to change childhood for the better. None of us can shift the culture of screens and pressure alone -- but together, we can create a community where kids have space to grow, play and thrive.

 

This pledge is our community’s commitment to creating healthier, more connected childhoods here in Catonsville. It reflects a shared vision — one where kids grow with confidence, independence, and real human connection, rather than pressure, comparison, and overwhelming technology. When families unite around these values, children benefit in powerful, lasting ways. Add your name and help shape that future: Sign the Pledge »

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No Smartphones Until At Least Age 14

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 Kids’ brains are still developing impulse control, emotional regulation, and the ability to manage constant stimulation. A smartphone overwhelms them with instant access, distraction, social comparison, and addictive design. Experts recommend waiting until at least age 14 (while some advocate waiting until they get their driver's license) because maturity increases sharply at this age — making it far more likely that teens can use technology intentionally rather than be consumed by it. Delaying smartphones protects developing brains and gives kids more time to grow strong foundations offline.

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No Social Media Until Age 16

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Before 16, teens are at peak vulnerability to anxiety, peer pressure, and body-image distortion — and social media intensifies all of it through likes, comments, filters, and algorithm-driven content. Around age 16, identity, judgment, and social reasoning undergo major developmental leaps, giving teens stronger resilience and clearer boundaries online. Entering social media later means far less harm and far more benefit. 

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Encourage Age-Appropriate Independence

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Children grow more confident and capable when they’re trusted to do more on their own. Everyday independence — walking to a friend’s house, helping with real tasks at home, solving small problems without adult intervention — builds resilience, competence, and self-trust. Research and movements like Let Grow show that when kids practice autonomy, they become more socially skilled, less anxious, and better prepared for life. Giving kids safe, meaningful independence is one of the most powerful ways to help them thrive. 

 

Model Technology Hygiene
 

We know that it can be hard in today's world to have good tech habits, but studies show our own technology use is the biggest predictor of our children's digital use. Technoference, the term used for the interference of technology during family time, also has a significant negative impact on family and children's health. There are many simple things we can do as parents to change the way technology is used at home. Have a look at our blog on technoference for ideas. 

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Talk to Other Parents and Set Shared Expectations

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The biggest pressure to give kids smartphones or social media early often comes from what “other families” are doing. But when parents communicate openly and coordinate expectations, that pressure disappears. Talking to other parents creates shared norms, reduces comparison, and makes it easier for everyone to delay smartphones, skip social media, and encourage independence. Strong community agreements help kids feel included and supported — and help parents feel less alone.​​​​

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